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The Bachelor Season 20, Episode 9: omg turtles!

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It’s Fantasy Suite week, and in true Bachelor form, Ben is forced to give a forced endorsement for Jamaica. Shout out to the Jamaica board of tourism. Let’s get right to it:

Caila

Ben takes Caila on a very awkward, quiet raft ride down the river. Oh geez, it’s so awkward. Kristy and I feel bad for the raft…. driver? Rafter? Raft Operator? We settle on Raftafarian and move on. There’s conveniently a guy stationed at the end of this raft ride who is there solely to prepare jerk chicken for them. I can’t imagine that this guy is always stationed here. There doesn’t appear to be much raft or foot traffic. Kristy: IT’S BELIEVABLE!

Caila tells Ben that she’s in love with him. There is an INSANE amount of gratuitous tongue action in a 20 second make out scene. Caila talks a weird amount about being able to tell that he’s in love with her too because of his breath. Pretty sure that’s not a good way to judge. Ben and Caila decide to take advantage of the fantasy suite. (Sidenote: Kristy and I read an article called “25 Things You Didn’t Know About The Bachelor” and apparently they don’t provide condoms in the fantasy suite, so Kristy at this point yells, “Hope you brought your own protection!”)

Lauren

Ben and Lauren are the cutest ever and I refuse to accept that there are any other women on this show anymore.

A large British man named Mel informs Lauren that they are going to release turtles. Lauren, in true woodland fashion, loses her damn bunny mind. OH DEAR LORD THE TURTLES ARE FUCKING ADORABLE. Ben and Lauren begin to pray for the turtles, wishing them the best of luck returning to the ocean.

Me: Are they praying into the turtle bucket?
Kristy: Yes. Is that a sentence you ever expected to say?

Ben says what everyone is thinking: Lauren is too good for him. Dude, I think IIII’M in love with Lauren. Lauren is too good for everyone.

So, confession….I missed most of Lauren’s little talk with Ben, because I kept looking into the kitchen and saw Kristy sneaking various foods out of the pantry, looking innocent and pretending that she wasn’t eating them.

Kristy: What peanut butter?
Kristy: What brown sugar?
Kristy: What marshmallows?!
Me: “DUDE WHAT AM I GOING TO TURN AROUND TO NEXT?”

Lauren and Ben go to the fantasy suite, and Lauren chooses the following words, “I just really need time to be us. To do us.” Thus, the fantasy suite, Lauren. She finally tells Ben that she’s in love with him, and Ben BREAKS EVERY RULE and tells her that HE LOVES HER TOO. Ben, dude. That’s not how it works. (This does not bode well for Caila, since he said nothing in response to her declaration of love). They make out on the couch for a while and exchange several “I love you’s.” It’s adorable, but Ben clearly cannot follow instructions. Ben brings Lauren breakfast in bed, and Lauren tells the camera that Ben is “my person” and it’s TOO MUCH CUTE JUST GET ENGAGED NOW.

JoJo

This is apparently the season of confusing shirts as JoJo walks up in another shirt I can’t explain. They wander around a waterfall and eventually jump in, and oh my gosh I’m always so bored when Ben and JoJo go on dates. JoJo tells Ben she loves him, and Ben SAYS IT BACK TO HER AND BEN WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. JoJo responds appropriately by looking super duper shocked that he reciprocated the sentiment because EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT’S NOT HOW THIS WORKS.

JoJo spends their evening date defending her brothers and Ben nods a lot. JoJo says, “It feels so nice to hear you talk.” Kristy and I share confused looks. JoJo and Ben go to the fantasy suite and eat mixed fruit. (We are hoping that if he dumps JoJo eventually, he play’s the other JoJo’s “Leave (Get Out)” as she walks out).

Ben takes a pensive shoeless walk around various watery places and talks about how he isn’t in love with Caila. Coincidentally, Caila is SUPER PUMPED to go surprise Ben and remind him that she’s in love with him. She tells the camera approximately 88 times that she loves him. This is not good for Caila, this is definitely not good. Caila breaks into Ben’s place and searches the place for him, smiling like a serial killer the whole time. Kristy and I are sure she’s there to murder him. Oh, sweet Caila…. she is clueless about what’s about to happen to her. Long story short… Ben breaks up with Caila. She doesn’t expect it. It’s sad. Caila’s a cute crier and it’s not fair.

To recap: Ben has now told the last two women that he’s totally in love with both of them. This can only bode well for all involved. Next week is “Women Tell All,” which is always cringeworthily entertaining.

 

 

 

 

The Bachelor Season 20, Episode 8: Damn it Chad!

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This episode begins with Ben gazing longingly into the ocean, because it’s The Bachelor. We find out he’s on his first of four hometown dates, and he’s on his way to meet Amanda. Kristy and I missed almost the entire conversation with Amanda because we were debating how her shirt was staying on. There didn’t appear to be any straps, but there were sleeves that were not on her shoulders and started around the elbows, and perhaps a zipper involved somewhere? We never did figure it out, so if someone has a skematic or something…. holla at us.

Ben cries for the first of approximately 847 times this episode. This time it’s because Amanda is reunited with her kids. It’s pretty cute, I’ll admit. We are once again distracted though, because all of Ben’s clothes look like toddler sizes. Did the producers do his laundry for him and shrink all his clothes? His shorts are so, so short. Amanda, on the other hand, looks like she is wearing the last two items of clothing she has before she has to do laundry again. We really can’t figure out her outfit. Still.

Ben runs around with the kids, and he’s great with them. They chase birds like you do on all good dates. At one point, Ben has an adorable exchange with one of Amanda’s daughters:

“You go to my house?” – mini Amanda
“Yeah, is that alright?” – Ben
“… Yeah.” – mini Amanda

They then go visit Amanda’s parents and it’s exceedingly boring. They have the exact conversation you would expect the parents of a woman with young children to have with the man she and 24 other women have been dating for 6 weeks. Use your imagination, and let’s move on.

Ben’s second date is with Snow White’s woodland sidekick, Lauren. She’s cuter than ever as she takes Ben around Portland to see the sights and eat at food trucks. They make a romantic stop at the Multnomah Whiskey Library and Lauren tells the camera that she wants to tell Ben she’s in love with him, but wants her family’s approval first.

Lauren’s sister pulls Ben aside. Ben cries.

Seriously, Lauren is DYING to tell someone she loves Ben. Please reference the following exchange:

“Do you feel like you and Ben are truly compatible?” – Lauren’s sister
“Are you asking if I’m in love with Ben?” – Lauren

Uh, no, bunny face. Not at all. Stephen chimes in at this point from the kitchen:

“What did you have for lunch today?”
“ARE YOU ASKING IF I’M IN LOVE WITH BEN?”

Blah blah dinner dinner talking talking. Lauren lets Ben leave without telling him she loves her.

Caila’s hometown is the most boring of them all. She takes Ben to her old high school and they sit on the “couples bench” and make out. They then go to a toy factory that her dad is the CEO of and they design and build a toy house that they are apparently going to live in after they get married. Seems impractical.

Ben has dinner with the family, and in a strange twist of events, doesn’t cry! Caila cries though, as she tells her parents that she thinks Ben is the one. That’s seriously the end of this date. She doesn’t tell Ben she loves him either. These girls are 0 for 3 in the communication department.

Ahhh yes. JoJo. This is what I was waiting for.

JoJo’s date starts off with her waiting for Ben, and getting a letter from an ex-boyfriend proclaiming his true love for her. She starts reading it, so ahppy, thinking it’s from Ben. But SPOILER ALERT IT’S CHAD. WHO’S CHAD? DAMN IT CHAD ITS TOO LATE.

Ben arrives to a teary-eyed JoJo, and Ben, VERY ASTUTELY, realizes something is amiss. Nothing gets past you, Ben! She explains her situation and he looks about as uncomfortable as humanly possible, but he manages to position his face into a semi-smile and comfort JoJo.

They head to JoJo’s family’s house, and apparently JoJo is a Kardashian. This house is ENORMOUS. Her brothers immediately seem like THE WORST. (Turns out, they are).

JoJo tells her mom that she’s afraid of getting hurt, and JoJo’s mom responds, “You’re not going to get hurt, you’re beautiful,” which seems like a non-sequitur, or JoJo’s mom is severely misinformed about the nature of The Bachelor.

Ben has a very awkward conversation with JoJo’s brothers, which then extends to a conversation with the entire family in the kitchen. They tell Ben that he is brainwashing all these women and taking advantage of his position of power. Seriously….. where the hell is JoJo? Literally everyone in Dallas is in this kitchen right now, but JoJo is nowhere to be found while this ambush is occurring. Ben tears up while he tells the camera he isn’t evil and JoJo says goodbye to Ben without telling him that she loves him. 0 for 4.

It’s now time for the rose ceremony and it seems pretty obvious how this will go. Baby bunny gets the first rose, and the next goes to Caila. It’s now between JoJo and Amanda, and JoJo ends up getting the final rose.

Ben walks Amanda out and they have a surprisingly mature conversation, and Amanda is very graceful. She breaks down in the limo, and Ben breaks down while attempting to do an on-camera interview about Amanda’s exit.

They promo the next few episodes of the show, and perhaps the best part of the entire episode is the bonus clip at the end. We get taken back to a cut clip of Ben talking to BunnyHead’s teenage brothers, and they question Ben about the fantasy suite. Ben squirms and doesn’t know how to answer, stammering and stuttering while the two boys are grinning and clearly enjoying this torture. “I would never… put your sister in a position…… that is degrading to her at all.” Cut to black.

So next week is tropical dates and fantasy suites – should be a good one.

The Bachelor Season 20, Episode 7: No Ducks in Vegas

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So this week, we have perhaps the most boring episode of The Bachelor in Bachelor history. Let’s get to it.

This week the group is in Warsaw, Indiana, Ben’s hometown, and coincidentally, “The Orthopedic Capitol,” or so says their sign.

The girls enter Warsaw by walking through a park and throwing leaves at each other.

  • Stephen: “Awwww yeah!”
  • Kristy: “Do you think they are going to get naked or something?”
  • Stephen: “Awwww yeah!”

(Also, there’s a crazy commercial for “Bai”, an antioxidant drink in which a horse does the grapevine while being told to “sideways fancy prance, ya hear?” Okay. That’s it)

My favorite little bunny Lauren B. gets the first date, and I LOVE THEM. Ben stops by what used to be a movie theatre and tells a story about his first kiss. It’s adorable. He re-enacts it with Lauren and it’s just SO MUCH CUTE. They then head to a youth center where Ben used to work

Lauren and Ben interact with the kids and the kids looooove Lauren. Also, her cartwheel was incredible. I wish I had those skills. These kids were pulling around that little baby bunny like she was a ragdoll. There was a bet that if one of the kids made a half-court shot, Ben would have to kiss Lauren. The shot is sunk and they kiss. One of the kids says, “Lauren and Ben just squishy-squshed!” Then, inexplicably, some of the Indiana Pacers show up. Because, of course they do.

The night portion of the date arrives and bunny and Ben go to a bar and then back to his hotel room to talk about the comments that were made about her last week. Ben reassures her that he thinks nothing of them, and they continue being the cutest thing EVER. I think I said, “They’re so adorable” about 18, 568 times.

Me: “Aw! They’re soooooo cute.”
Kristy: “They are! And I haven’t seen HER tongue once!”

BUNNY SAID SHE’S IN LOVE. Kristy and I audibly “awwwww”-ed. Let’s end the show here. Done. Over.

JoJo gets the next one on one. They go to Wrigley Field. I like JoJo, but I am so bored by them together. Ben says he feels passion and a deep relationship. I feel nothing. I’m still bored. Blah blah blah JoJo is scared. He questions her feelings. I remain super bored.

Brief Intermission while I find something floating in my tea.

Me: “There’s a bug in my soup. Nope. This is tea. Wait? IS it a bug?”
Kristy: “Could it be a part of the tea?”
Me: “Maybe? Looks twig-like. I’m gonna go with it.”

Back to the JoJo/Ben conversation. I’m sure I didn’t miss anything. Still bored. We get to the end of the date and JoJo full on grabs Ben’s ass.

Me: “JOJO! Heyyyyyyyy!”
Kristy: Okay, I see that! Did your family want to see that JoJo? Because they’re going to!

The group date is awkward. Amanda and Becca get their own rowboat while Caila and Ben get to be Allie and Noah.

Amanda says she’s going to squeeze her kids.

Becca tells Ben not to blindside her.

Caila is moss looking for a steady tree.

“When I say I have great women here…. You are the women I’m talking about.” What an amazing clarification, Ben. Unfortunately, he can only choose one woman to continue the night with, and he picks Amanda. They go on a date to shamelessly plug McDonalds.

They work the drive-thru window at McDonalds. I don’t think this is legal. It seems highly illegal, actually. Her hair isn’t pulled back. I didn’t see anyone verify their food handlers’ permits. Irresonpsible, Chris Harrison. Just irresponsible. Amanda says she’s shocked that there’s more to the date, and that she would have been so happy if McDonald’s was their entire date. #eyeroll #shamelessproductplacement

They later go to a carnival that appears to be just a party for Ben. He mentions again that it’s a small town. Which makes me wonder… I bet some of those kids from the youth center are also here tonight. Bet they’re confused about what happened to Lauren. Who’s Amanda? You were just kissing Lauren.

Oh geez. They’re on a ferris wheel. Is he really just trying to recreate The Notebook? Row boats? Check. Carnival? Check. Ferris Wheel? Check. Next week he will build one of them a house. Stay tuned.

Okay, we are finally on to the third and final one on one date. It’s with Emily. It’s so clear right off the bat that she’s #friendzoneEmily. I’m already bored. Ben, completely inexplicably, takes Emily to meet his parents. Emily lets them know that ducks don’t live in Vegas. Good start.

I feel bad for Emily. She has the best of intentions, but she isn’t the greatest conversationalist. Ben’s mom starts to cry just thinking about Ben ending up with Emily. That’s gotta hurt. Ben questions his relationship with Emily after his family’s reaction and he takes her to the breakup bench. Emily clearly thinks it’s the headed-for-marriage bench. She does not see the devastation that’s to come. Poor little twinster.

Ben tells her he doesn’t see her as his wife. He’s sad. She’s sad. The other women are watching through the window and they’re sad. She reacts very well though; they hug, and he boats away. She’s super classy in her exit interview and I remember that I like Emily. She’s definitely not right for Ben, but I like her.

It’s time for the rose ceremony, and, long story short, Becca predictably goes home. I shall miss her perfect hair and perfect everything.

The scenes for next week look dramatic. But so did the scenes for this week. Let’s hope next week is better.

The Bachelor Season 20, Episode 6: Pigs, Ben. Pigs.

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(warning: contains ALL the spoilers for this episode)

Preface: On Bachelor nights, sometimes (okay, most of the time), Kristy and I go to Menchie’s, bring home our frozen yogurt, freeze it for a few hours, and eat it while we watch quality television programming. So, that’s what we did. However, as Kristy was loading marshmallows on the top of her yogurt cup, she knocked the entire cup over. I walked over to her and found her hurriedly scooping up the felled toppings and whispering, “be cool! be cool!” maniacally to herself as she replaced them into the cup.

As the opening credits for The Bachelor ran, Kristy looked at me and said, “I think I’m hungry – have you ever felt that?” A spoonful of frozen yogurt topped with Reese’s was halfway to my mouth as I said, “Um, rude,” and continued to shovel it into my mouth.Menchies

We join this episode midway through the previous episode; it begins with Ben taking Olivia away from the group and questioning her about what the other women had been saying about her. She immediately says that she can’t relate to the girls because she likes reading books in her room and “thinking. That’s what I do.” …. Okay, Olivia. Okay. Cut to the girls speculating on Ben sending Olivia home. Cut back to Olivia bashing the girls for liking to paint their nails. Cut to the girls hoping and praying for Olivia’s departure. Cut back to Olivia crying, saying that she likes to smile and be nice. Ben walks back to the group, Olivia in hand, and the girls are ME in this moment.

“I don’t know what he sees in her that we don’t see.” – Jennifer

“WHAT THE FUCK. HOW IS HE FALLING FOR THIS ACT OF HERS? HER TEARS ARE FAKE AS FUCK!” – Emily (correct reaction, Emily. Correct).

Blah blah, rose ceremony. Girls get roses. Also…Leah… I don’t even know Leah. She has flown under the radar this whole time. But, she gets a rose. I like her braid. Emily gets the last rose, and that means Jennifer is going home. Any chance of “Bennifer” is now destroyed. Oh well, the original Bennifer didn’t last either.

The previews for what’s coming up after this commercial break is just close-ups of every single girl crying and Olivia smirking with her enormous mouth on the beach. I finish off my Menchies as we wait. Read more

circle of health

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Me, you know, just trying to be healthy:

“This is different. I’m going to stick with it this time. It’s so easy. Just exercise a little more and eat a little better. This is not difficult,” I think to myself on the first day of my seemingly ten millionth attempt at being a healthy adult human.

Yeah, here I go, eatin’ fresh-cut fruit and cage-free eggs like a fuckin’ CHAMP. I am the queen of protein and healthy fats. Smoothies? Hell yes. There’s more spinach in my morning smoothies than bras on a One Direction stage. I’m on top of the world. Sure; I’m a little hungry, but hey, it will all be worth it this summer when I’m on the beach, frolicking like I’m in the middle of a goddamn Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition shoot. This steamed cauliflower with Himalayan pink sea salt will get me there; of this I am convinced.

Someone brought cake to work. Who the hell does something like that? Linda? Well, she’s surely a minion of the devil. I make a mental note to stop speaking to Linda for a while. Ugh, but that only leaves Janet and Steve to talk to. Whatever, I forgive Linda. For now.

Look at me in all these cute gym clothes. I’m so sporty. I’ll probably burn at least 5,000 calories while I’m here. Total Eclipse of the Heart is playing on my iPod, and I’m killin’ it on this treadmill. Four minutes into my run and, hey, if I put my mind to it, I could definitely run a marathon within a year. Definitely. Look at all these people jealous of how fast I can run. I may be the best runner to ever live. I must have ran at least 2 or 3 miles by now – OH WHAT THE HELL. 0.63 miles. Fuck it, that’s far enough. I’m so hungry.

Oh my God… fries. Fries are so good. I think about how happy Matt Damon was when he grew those little potatoes on Mars. That’s how happy I am when I see fries. I can have some fries – I’ve been so good today. GOOD LORD IT’S THE FOOD OF THE GODS. I’m eating all these fries; don’t look at me. Beer is good, too. Might as well. Why do I keep eating cookies? WHY CAN’T I STOP?! I know they are bad and I feel so guilty and I’m a terrible person, but… sooooo chocolately.

Back at the gym; have to work off my transgressions. Not getting on the treadmill; I won’t be burned again. How about 12 minutes at a slow to moderate pace on the stationary bike? Solid workout. Good job. Time to go home, I’m going to miss the start of The Bachelor, and that’s unacceptable.

Oh hey, Safeway. I see you have ice cream on sale. Yes. I will have all of that please. Wait. Hold up. Are you telling me there is also cookie dough involved in this transaction? Marry me. I’ll be better tomorrow.

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